Dancing? Clubs too loud? They'll invite, but they're just being nice, they know im not into that stuff, Dude Im 28 Ive never been to a club for the same exact reason. That tends to obviously make you act stupider. Of course it's easier said than done to just have fun in the moment and not care about meeting someone, if getting into a relationship is important to you. If you have any questions, please send the mods a message. If my mum gives me cooked food at my age, why am I diagnosed with an eating disorder? You like your friends (right?). 14. Name a popular food that you really dislike? Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. 31. attitude it can cause you to lose your ability to appreciate elements of clubbing for their own sake. There is also a lot of pressure to not drink, and not relax due to comparing ourselves to our peers with jobs, relationships, healthy lifestyles., Alice, 28, from Manchester said: There is a surge towards being healthy and a night of drinking is a real turn off. I'm trained as a counselor. You forgot to take out cash from the ATM. However, if introverts do go out per extroverted expectations, they feel loved and accepted, they feel normal, and they are temporarily reassured in their not-aloneness, so that quiet disdain for being stimulated improperly remains only that. 17. I can't stand it and won't do it. Note that those are all negative. You carry earplugs in your going out purses. Even when I was 18 and went to my first club I didnt feel it. However, if your girlfriend is giving you cause to doubt her loyalty to you, you have to ask yourself, "Why am I putting up with this" and "What am I going to do to change it.". So when thinking about it like that, sure there are those that will fade out from the scene. Lots of people tell me I'm too old for that. Tried it one time and one time only and that's only because it was for a friend's birthday. They enjoy seeing their friends, but question why they want to leave after a few hours when everyone else wants the night to continue. The best option is to admit to yourself that you're an introvert, and to figure out what you need from your social contact. Be honest. I'm Chris Macleod. Please do not copy, reproduce, or translate any articles without permission. I don't think going to them is as bad as some people make it out to be, and will go into detail below. Whats the sense of spending money to have a shitty time (the hangover)? It's a theme I sometimes bring up in relation to other topics. Hundreds of clubs have closed in recent years. I've heard many people say the EDM trend is fading out, but clubbing culture doesn't seem to be going anywhere. I was shy, awkward, and lonely until my mid-twenties and created this site to be the kind of guide I wish I'd had at the time. Find a way to dance home alone to build confidence. Normal, level-headed women put on their sparkly make-up and revealing tops. Why would someone want to go to a bar or club? By continuing to use this site, you agree to our updated Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. 24. This all was Bullshit. At age 25, you're older than everyone else. ), To blow off steam after a long week of work or classes, To check a new venue out and see what it's like, To be out in their 'scene' with like-minded people, To dress up and do something more glitzy than day-to-day life. But now I enjoy talking and having real conversations over drinks. 3. 23. This is the second way people write off clubbing. Youre debating ISIS, not where to go after the pregame. There's a time and a place to tear the club up, but one day you'll walk in a party and suddenly everybody looks young, it's hot, and your feet hurt. We never thought this day would come either. Lucy, 25, from London said: Why be crammed in a sweaty club or be limited to a handful of mindless nightlife activities when I could be doing a lot more at home for less money, with greater cultural value and without the hassle of trekking out?, And even those who do enjoy a night out accept that it is at least partly because its still affordable where they live. Is it ok that i prefer to go out when its quieter and more chilled. Copyright The Student Room 2023 all rights reserved. Then I started raving and vibe and atmosphere is so much better. thank you so much. yeah man its perfectly normal. I can't deny some club goers fit this description, but I think most of them are just like anyone else. Your pillows finally stopped smelling like an ashtray at Hooters. They realize some of the flaws of clubbing are a natural side effect of the things that can make them fun. I mean, you dont mind the occasional Saturday night out, but you dont understand the need to do it every weekend. Some of the novelty wears off, and even if you're good-natured about the flaws, they still start to wear you down after you've experienced them enough. Here's why clubs lost their appeal and why I doubt I'll go back anytime soon: I feel too old to hang out with most clubkids. You like to dance. When all the other windows and doors are open. On track to retire at 40. It was great. You can only take having your hopes frustrated so many times. All advice given must be good, ethical advice. When they do so (and sometimes it's not as bad as they were anticipating, or it is at least more pleasurable than sitting home and wondering why they're aberrant), then they actually feel relief for acting like extroverts--while repressing the dissonance between who they are and who they pretend they are. Fuck that, you get to do what makes you comfortable! "Ugh, dancing is so mindless. To be fair, there are other reasons this happens, such as having more responsibilities and plain getting older, but plenty of people feel that clubbing just starts to get tiresome. You tell real stories brought on by real memories -- not what you piece together from the text messages from the night before. To hear music they like, and through a good sound system, To go out and hang out with a few friends, To go out and see the other regulars and staff, Just to be in an interesting, stimulating environment (i.e., music, lights, decor, etc. You evaluate how well your night went in terms of whether you met anyone, not how much fun you had - if you had no luck, then your night sucked. So youre in a group of friends who just love to go out and get drunk in clubs every weekend. They go to parties because they feel like they should, and then they wonder what's wrong with them such that it is not . 29. I'll get more into that later. My life is sooo ******* sad, ask me anything. I have a Master of Social Work (MSW) degree, and a B.A. Sure drinks are expensive everywhere, but maybe try pre-gaming a bit and then just buying one or two drinks. People only really go clubbing to feel superior and to judge others. Maybe some people around you feel rejected if you dont want to go out; they take it personally, and then to preserve their own self-worth, they point out that you are arrogant to not make time for other people. But you can now get cheap city breaks for the price of a good night out that you wont remember in London. You're over-identifying with everything on this list. If I was to inject a tiny bit of nuance though, dealing with bad anxiety sounds like a bad time and you might want to see a professional for that. Being able to meet and chat to strangers is another skill. You really can't listen to that much Rihanna or Enrique or Swedish House Mafia. As a result they can adopt a more stuck-up persona as a kind of armor against all the guys who bother them. Clubbing is like a McDonalds Happy Meal -- its great until you grow up and realize that its totally bad for you and the toy that lured you in the first place is pure sh*t. After years of believing that there is no other way of life beside David Guetta remixes and well vodka, youre suddenly changing your tune (and maybe a few diapers). 2. I am also one of those people, we do exist!! Honestly unless you are very interested in dating older women I would say there is a good chance every woman there will be at least a few years older than you. Going to bars and clubs is too expensive, everyones too busy worrying about whether they will ever be able to afford a mortgage or children to throw away money every week on a club., Original reporting and incisive analysis, direct from the Guardian every morning, Bouncers are always rude and aggressive with no cause, djs usually play what they want not what people want to listen to and drinks are overpriced.. They can be way too loud, often to the point that you can barely talk to anyone. Eventually most stop going at all and will tell you they don't like clubs anymore. this is completely okay & dont let anyone shame you to make it seem like its not. There's a lot you can do to improve your social skills on your own - I wouldn't have made this site if I thought otherwise. 54. While waiting on line, you can spot the Forever21 skirt that you wear to work on another girl who is conveniently wearing it as a shirt. You are never, ever going to meet anyone of substance at the club and you know that by now. It feels like an ever-present threat, so the introvert compromises to attain social validation and security in their relationships with others: basically, to acquire a proxy for the assurance that their company will always be desirable and that they will never be left truly alone. New study finds that clubbing is not as popular among millennials anymore, but why? 37. What is the sense of getting "fucked"? EVERYONE annoys you, drunken people especially. Its much easier and more comfortable for me to talk to my friends on Skype or Facebook than to force myself into an uncomfortable and intimidating situation., Abi, 24, from Bath agreed: I find clubs totally overwhelming - I cant talk, people get lost or split off and it just generally ends up with me trying to find people rather than dancing staying in is more under my control., Sirena, 25 said that while previous generations embraced hedonism and were willing to lose three days to a big night out, the desperation to meet all our self-imposed goals makes todays young feel like a night out is an outrageous indulgence. They see everything that draws people to clubs as shallow and below them. You're confused as to why they can't just lower the music a little? Even if they wanted to, the noise level and general craziness going on doesn't make it easy. 11. Press J to jump to the feed. Clubbing and alcohol just seem like a huge waste of money to me. 43. There are plenty of artists who play an eclectic mix of tracks, some of which you may never hear again for quite some time. Id prefer to stay away. theyre speed sating group for younger folks. I'm old enough that I don't care what they think. In my experience bars and clubs offer plenty of reasons to go to them as well. Who's down for a wine bar!? Do you really want to be accepted for someone youre not, while your true self is implicitly rejected by both your circle and you? Find another social activity that you like and do that instead. They might be somethin to want to experience instead of clubs. As i read the post, i thought that OP has already made his experiences with clubbing and its not his cup of tea. Psychology Today 2023 Sussex Publishers, LLC, How to Handle People Who Are Eternally Evasive. Alex, 27, from Essex said: The reason we are less interested in clubbing is due to a combination of social media, being over-exposed and obsessed with how we want to be perceived to the outside (virtual) world. Theres a time and a place to tear the club up, but one day youll walk in a party and suddenly everybody looks young, its hot, and your feet hurt. Those artists definitely play the same tracks, all of them. If that means you don't party, then don't! Find a quieter public place. 1. 34. However, I've found that as I've gotten older, as much as I enjoy the dancing and the atmosphere at times, I generally enjoy a good house party. Want to meet people? I've noticed people who like clubbing acknowledge its flaws, but don't get as bent out of shape about them as some of us do: Clubbing has enough drawbacks that many people do it less and less as they get into their mid-twenties. Bars can be pretty boring if you go with the wrong people. It is like wanting to get into a house and bemoaning the fact that one of the windows is locked. Plenty of people who go clubbing feel shy or out of their element, but they look around and everyone else seems to have it together, so they put on a brave face and look confident as well. 36. But once you learn about some artists and develop your tastes, then you can start to like that aspect of going to bars. You can fall asleep anywhere AND YOU'RE NOT AFRAID TO DO IT. A lot of times if someone wants to go to a club to dance with their friends they really do just want to dance. My logic is that most people are alright, and a good proportion of them go to bars and clubs, so if you go to a packed venue, the patrons can't all be empty-headed and irritating. You may have to wait forever to get a drink. I just wanted to g. A common sentiment about bars and clubs is that they're full of vapid people. Maybe I'm just a club rat and that's what I like to do, who am I to judge how people want to spend there time. Now there really was no point to going out. I've noticed that as a group people who struggle socially have a tendency to dislike bars and nightclubs. You may not directly get into a confrontation, but be near one when it happens and have your night ruined by the bad vibes it causes. Many teenagers spend money got from their parents - i know from school. Its hideous. You may come to hate clubs themselves instead of just that fact that you can't meet anyone in them. The implication is that no one could really like what clubbing has to offer for its own sake. I imagine most speed daters are going to be between the ages of 25 and 45. Why can't clubs be edgier? They're happy that they overcame their introversion (except that it keeps challenging them). 47. Do you make yourself go out, though you prefer not to do so? Unless you are suitably . are my parents right to lock me in my room as punishment for drinking underage . Hate clubs as well. Bars And Clubs Aren't All Bad. You like music. Answer (1 of 8): Of course it is silly thats you're choice. At the end of a long week they want to spend time with their friends, rather than shout over music at them. The uncomfortable shoes, overpriced drinks and terrible music we used to look forward to every weekend have now become the stuff of adult nightmares. Clubbing is only one small way of getting to know people and in many ways not the best. As one person stated, "When I get to see my friends its nice to sit down and chat with them rather than getting really drunk and not knowing whats going on with them.". They don't get ticked off because they can't have an in-depth conversation in a club, because they never went in with the expectation that was possible. It all depends on you're friends, so long as you're spending quality time with them when they're not out clubbing, it shouldn't be a problem. 1. If someone's comfortable with their love life it's nothing for them to go to a bar and just enjoy the music and company and have a good night. Ruth, 22 from Edinburgh said: With a competitive work environment and everyone looking for graduate jobs, I cannot imagine turning up to work hungover or tired on a weekday and still performing well enough to get ahead. There are a number of descriptors that you might assign to the person who feels this way: self-absorbed, narcissistic, boring, unexciting, selfish, above it all, and the list continues. Meet. You probably have your own fun, pointless hobbies which other people don't see the big deal about. I think, people only do this to forget for a while who they are - so they are not happy with their life. "Who lives uptown again?". Best thing is to save, lets say a specific amount in percent, of money you earned. They see the annoyances as coming with the territory. Heres 20 things youll know if you dont like clubbing. And if you don'. 40. If i don't like sommething it is usually based on experiences and just by someone telling me to "go there without expectations" won't change it. Same thing with clubbing, if you don't like it then just don't do it. Your friends will be there. Answer (1 of 3): Not everybody likes the same thing. Im also male, so I have less fear attached to things like that. Rather than seeing themselves as a generation stuck staring at phones and not wanting to connect in real life, most of the young people who responded said that clubs were simply not personal enough. 41. i speed dated around that age. People only really go clubbing to try to get laid. Abi from Bath finds clubs totally overwhelming. However, I think if you have a big chip on your shoulder toward clubs, that mentality can close some doors and pointlessly bring down your mood. In real life, a lot of people who actually are introverted act extroverted. I feel like I should is the most common response. Take the time to look around and find a place with a good vibe, music you like, and a friendly crowd. A few drinks with friends is nice but better to go out for food., The last reason given by many millennials? You can sit around saying, "My girlfriend likes to party and I don't" and hoping that things will change by themselves. You never know. You dare not wonder what you would do if you stayed home instead, lest that idea tempt you and make you even later for your plans (or cause you to commit a massive social faux pas and cancel them). Yes i have medication for my anxiety but i just dont have any interest in going clubbing, i prefer to sit & have drinksi have one amazing friend and she never pressured me into anything but my other friends r a bit shitty so iv stopped hanging around with them, i dont want to hang around with people who put me in situations i dont like. 57. I still go clubbing occasionally, since I have quite a few friends who are in their mid-20's. I enjoy going dancing. Studies suggest that todays young have fallen out of love with it, and in its latest trend report the Office of National Statistics dropped the price of nightclub admission from the list of common goods and services used to calculate inflation. The point this person makes about the DJs is something that can be easily avoided as well. It's real. The decline of nightclubbing has been attributed, in part, to the smoking ban, and to relaxed licensing laws that make bars and pubs more appealing. Your dry cleaners can now afford to send their two kids to college thanks to your business. Please make sure you read our rules here and remember to: Be polite and respect each other. Follow reddit rules. A free guide to getting past social awkwardness, I cover this ego-cushioning thinking in this article. I know. Structure your friendships and your relationships based on that, and select your company accordingly (or let them self-select accordingly). People only really go clubbing to get wasted. 55. I spent a lot of time that evening outside smoking 4 or 5 one after another to avoid going back in. Welcome aboard! Will you alienate everyone if you succumb to your introverted preferences and find yourself actually alone? Well you don't have a shitty time while you are there do you? There are plenty of smaller clubs offering up better music with a better atmosphere. 38. I think I have slightly grown out of it, I am the type that just enjoys going to the Cinema, eating out and doing ordinary social activities (e.g sitting around having a chat) To top it all off I really hate drinking, I hate the smell, the taste and the effects of alcohol, even having . If you are an introvert, though, maybe you dont want to spend time with them. 9. Leave that to people who do love it, and know it's okay that you don't. Another thing is that if you go out with a real 'Must. churches often have them. People who are clubbing are admittedly there to have some mindless fun. You're popping another button like you're popping bottles, thinking you're sooooo bad. Click here to go to the free training. MORE : 17 things you will only understand if you dont care about fashion, This seaside town has been crowned the UKs cheapest staycation spot, Whats in store for today? Don't get me wrong, I love my friends and we hang out regularly when we get off work, but damn it's hard to beat a night out dancing my ass off at the club, warehouse or loft space. It's negative and cynical to paint everyone with the same brush. These are just two stories sent to the Guardian in response to our survey asking millennials (those aged 18 to 35) about their relationship with a once treasured pastime: clubbing. 42. Do not post content that promotes hate based on identity or vulnerability. See: above. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. I went once for a friend's birthday.. had a blast, spent too much money, danced like dorks in the corner because most of us were in relationships and didnt want to get hit on Then i never did it again or had the desire to do it again lol. Shopping for cute little party dresses has been replaced with cute long wedding dresses. At 17 though, you're still finding out what you do like. The threat of the complete removal of others causes them to conform to the perceived preferences of others just so their own desire for time alone, time with few others, a quiet activity, or whatever pleases them does not leave them without the option for social contact. I've been writing about social skills for fifteen years. If you run into someone who's acting rude or obnoxious, that one person will stand out in your mind. 22. People usually dress up when they go out. Suddenly it's like you graduated from some kind of clubbing college and now you're the alumnus visiting the Meatpacking District Clubbing Campus and forgot everything you used to do when you went out at the height of your glory days. Hi Folks. And city breaks look better on Instagram., A lot of people slammed the fact that music is not what it used to be with Scin, 35, from Australia putting it quite succinctly, I dont miss nightclubs because music is shit now., Tom, 33, from London bemoaned the demise of once great clubbing venues: Bouncers are always rude and aggressive with no cause; DJs usually play what they want not what people want to listen to; the drinks are overpriced. We've joined the BHM Digital family of websites and have updated our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. ), It was certainly a good run, but now you can no longer ignore the signs that youre more into Book of the Month Club than Ushers "I Wanna Make Love In This Club.". Clubbing is only one small way of getting to know people and in many ways not the best. When all the other windows and doors are open. Now I mainly just go to festivals. 2. Oh hell, I don't even know what they play at the club these days. Also, certain bars are known for being places where you only go if you're looking for a one-night stand, or to do ecstasy, or whatever. Approached by people.. Find a group with common interests that you can ease into. Fast Stream 2023 (Reinstated) applicants thread. people. Not every last person who goes clubbing has these motivations though. I'm 59, man. In this Video I'm going to talk about why I don't like to go out in clubs anymore. Despite staving it off throughout college, your finely-tuned gag reflexes can finally tell the difference between promoter vodka and the good stuff. I'm a 14 yo virgin who hasn't had my period,is that normal? Were all working and busy so dont get to do the catch up stuff during the week., There was a small majority who found the clubbing scene simply too stressful. There are lots of reasons to be glad that your clubbing days are over. clubbing sounds fun but it just isn't for everyone! T here are a lot of reasons why Kaley, 23, doesn't go clubbing any more. Plus the clubs, even in the capital, are disappointing: they shut at 2am, much earlier than venues in Berlin, and just when you start enjoying yourself its lights on. Emily,18, from Solihull said: I am working hard during the week for my A-levels and spend the majority of Saturday playing sport so when I have the chance to go out by Saturday evening I am too tired., Leah, 18, from Newcastle agreed: Going out is too much effort. Ah wow well done you! So I covered the downsides. Their reasoning is that while people supposedly go clubbing to dance or unwind, they really have a less-flattering ulterior motive. Whats so great about dancing to music you dont know the words to, or paying out extra money for a small shot? The whole time that you're there, you are thinking about what you want to watch on Netflix. Your booty calls are confused when you text before 11 pm asking to go home together. Youre totally normal! Does anyone have any advice on this? They are a ready proxy for love and acceptance, because they are evidence that people want to spend time with you, so you have your "assurance" that you will never actually be alone in this world. 53. Im more than happy to go for drinks or food but i hate how im made to feel not normal because i dont go out out. The ones who dont understand you may leave, but in so doing, theyll deprive you of the social reinforcement that says youre wrong to be the way you are. So why do you not want to go? Everyone needs a night out, but it doesnt have to be in a club, she says. A similar idea to being good at bar and club activities is being able to appreciate certain elements of the places. One 33-year-old who was surveyed declared: Bouncers are always rude and aggressive with no cause; DJs usually play what they want not what people want to listen to; the drinks are overpriced.". You can't tolerate other people. 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